Abril 21, 2009

ETIQUETTE FOR MISTRESS - with reactions hehe


Hmmm ito ang checklist at rules na dapat sundin ng mga babaeng itinuturing na Other Woman, Mistress o Kabit. Susubukan kong basahin at sagutin base sa mga naoobserbahan ko sa buhay bilang nagging isa sa kanila (MINSAN/ONCE) sa buhay ko. He,he.

Never forget the reality of the situation. He is married. At the end of the day, he goes home to his wife and you sleep alone.
- Yan! Hinding hindi ko yan kinakalimutan hindi naman ako adik para
mag-ilusyon ng ganun. Sana ang iba dyan eh ganun din ang isipin.
Take things as they come, don't ever press for answers or change.
- Waahh guilty! Malay ko ba? Tao lang ako minsan hindi ko rin alam ang mga limitasyon ko pagdating sa ganitong relasyon. Para bang kahit alam kong impossible ang mga bagay na minsan eh hinihinge ko like more attention, adik ako dahil hinihinge ko pa rin. So now I know, sana eh magawa ko.
Don't cut yourself off from the dating world. If someone catches your eye and he is available, go for it.
- Oo naman! He,he sabi nga nila collect and select! Joke lang po…
Never make ultimatums that you don't intend to follow through on.
- Hu,hu ayan nakakainis ang mga ultimatums na yan. Tanga ako eh! Sorry hinding hindi ko na gagawin talaga promise.
Share with someone that you trust. It can be very isolating because of the inherent secrecy and people's judgments.
- Well ako eh I share it with the world, salamat sa blog! He,he (joke)
Don't chase him, let him come to you.
- Kaya ba ng powers ko ito? EH ako ang number ONE na makulit na babae sa buong mundo. Well. Subukan ko, kaya lang naniniwala akong absence makes the heart forget…. Ayoko hu,hu kaya as much as possible I keep regular communication.
Do not become a stalker. You gain nothing by driving by his house and the like.
- Kasama ba dito ang madalas na txt at ym??? Huhuhuhu guilty!
Don't settle with this. If you need or want more from a relationship go out and get it.
- Hmmm…. Hindi pwede… basta!
Don't expect anything and you won't be disappointed, but you may be pleasantly surprised.
- Isa lang naman ang ine-expect ko eh, enjoy while it last …. Kaso I guess its fading, nakakapanghinayang naman na tapusin ang isang bagay na napaganda ng simula. Hmmm ang importante nag enjoy ako! Yun!
He isn't committing to you, so don't commit to him.
- So mali kaming dalawa? Ay tanga!
Never judge his wife, you are not in her shoes and you don't know her side.
- Good one! Oo naman the wife is still the wife kahit na ba monster wife ang dating niya.
Don't get pregnant or fake a pregnancy in order to force change.
- Number one na dapat tandaan! Girls wag maging tanga!
Never bring up something about you and he in the distant future. Planning for next week is fine, but planning that Spring vacation is taboo.
- Ok fine! Tama ka dyan sige na nga oo na!
Become a good listener and that includes noticing body language.
- Hmmmm, well I think I am a good listener…. Owwsss???
Be positive as much as possible.
- I am always positive…
Never, never push.
- Yes, never push!! Guilty minsan!
Don't ask questions that you may not like the answers too.
- Ayan isa pa yan guilty! Huhuhu adik kasi!
Make the time that you have special.
- Sana….kaso lang minsa dahil sa mga drama at moda ko sa buhay nagiging disaster! Hayss dapat nga palang i-treasure ang bawat hiram na sandali at very precious ito sa inyo.
Last, dont consider yourself as just his option. Dapat patas ang laban mag-enjoy ka! Huwag mong isiping ginagamit ka lang niya, ang importante eh nagamit mo rin sya hehehe.

Ohh ayan Jhen ha i posted this one specially for you....and myself na rin hehhe. Tigilan na ang mga kalokohan na yan bakla ha!

2 komento:

Ice ayon kay ...

funny but some of the rules/etiquette listed here should applies to a wife as well... siguro kung susundin din ito ng mga misis eh wala nang lalaking maghahahanap ng Other Woman...

jennybe ayon kay ...

i totally agree with these rules if you may say it...dahil yun ang mga ginagawa ko. sometimes, it seems i can't take it anymore but what can i do i really like the guy